I was put in the terrifying position of watching over all
three of my young children on my own for several hours. My wife does this every
day as I commute to work in Manhattan and back. But she was doing food
demonstrations for Flushing C.S.A. at an event at the historic JohnBowne House recently and I was on my own with our three girls.
I had not planned what to do but my wife convinced me that
taking them to the New York Hall of Science would be good. She was spot on. If you
have young children and if it’s convenient to get to, the New York Hall of
Science is a great place.
We stayed as long as we could but after about four and a
half hours there, our three-year-olds had clothes that were wet from one of the
water exhibits and it was time to start heading home. We had arrived before it
was open but we left around 2:15 p.m. and I made a bee line straight for home
and kept up conversation with the kids as best I could, hoping the motion of
driving would not put the girls to sleep, but it did.
Kids napping in the car is a double-edged sword. On one hand
the kids are guaranteed to take a nap at the same time. On the other hand that
nap will not be that long and you will be stuck in your vehicle for an hour.
Sometimes that’s fine but sometimes that doesn’t work at all. You can’t go on a
long trip because the kids could wake up at any time and start crying and
you’ll need to take them home quickly. If you have to go to the bathroom, you
are out of luck and may have to improvise.
I realized less than a mile from home that I was now going
to be spending at least the next hour or more in the minivan. I was at peace
with that.
Drive time can be a time of much-appreciated solitude. Quiet
solitude is remarkably achievable even when you’re living in a city of millions
of people. The size of New York gives its citizens a certain degree of
anonymity. During my drive I passed by thousands of people, had close
encounters with maybe half dozen drivers down narrow two-way streets, and did
business with one fast food worker. I could give you the basic pedigree
information about the fast food worker but nothing else, and I doubt anyone I
encountered during that hour and a half could tell you anything about me.
When you spend most of your days without any peace and quiet,
you learn to appreciate any small moments of quiet solitude you can get, and
these drive times with napping children can be very valuable. They are
something that takes the edge off of the frantic pace of the city, that gives
us a moment to enjoy the sights and sounds of our own corner of this metropolis
without interruption. The same can be said of walks in the park or even walking
anonymously down city streets.
Our teeming Gotham demands much of us and part of the thrill
of living here is to embrace the breakneck pace of life. But when you get a
chance for an hour of respite, no matter how diluted, grasp onto it and enjoy
every minute.
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